I eat with people
January 18, 2008
I’m reading this book called”Never Eat Alone” which talks about the way to build relationships into win-win situations so that both parties can be better as a result of the relationships. I’m constantly amazed at the number of Christians who use other people as an end game to get what they want. To build a church. To “get them” into their group. Yet here is a book written for business people sharing the importance of relationships for business sake, and basically building a case for the Biblical model of relationships.
This is the lesson Im learning from this book and from my experience doing what it is I do: Relationships are the most important thing. In the context of the church or business, your life group or your focus group, when it comes to success, it should be based on the way people are growing relationally.
For a thousand and one years now (est.), people have used manipulation, smoothtalking, and condemnation in the church to get what they want. But finally people are waking up to the idea that, more than a belief system and a series of thoughts to prove what I believe, is the idea that if I can’t love my family, I really don’t love God like I think I do.
I’m quite certain I’ve heard that before. Somewhere.
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Until next time…